Things that I have learned

This past week has been the craziest week I have ever had in a longtime. I am not going to get into it, but I just thought I would share some of the things I’ve learned

1. Sometimes you are going to have to let things go

I am someone that lets things eat me alive. I will keep talking about and talking about the situation until I can't talk anymore. I think about all the things that I could have done to make that situation not happen. It kills me on the inside when do something wrong, when I know that I didn’t actually mean to do it. Until one day, I was talking to my mom and she told me "what can you do? You can’t go back in time and change things? You are going to have to let it go and keep it moving. If you keep thinking about and dwelling on it, you are not going to be able to grow from it.”

2. Sometimes sorry is not enough

Saying sorry is not going to get you out of everything if you fuck up. I know that, first hand. You think that things are okay until consequences come your way; it really scares the shit out of me and it has me thinking about all the times I fucked up. What If I wasn't forgiven? Will I be looked at differently? Are people are to take me seriously? I am pretty sure no one wants to be a fuck up. This idea of taking the consequences given takes time, as you grow and learn how to deal with what is in front of you.

3. Don't spend money like you got it like that

I was on a spending kick lately because I thought that I had something lined up for me but it turns out that I didn’t. It shakes me to the core because it shows that you don't know where your life is going to end up. You have to live for day and only for day. Be grateful for the things that you have. Take one step at a time. One day you can be on the top of the world and then you’re not. 

I am happy that I got to learn these things now, instead of later in life because I can prepare myself. To know that I know how to handle a situation without losing my mind. 

I hope that everyone is having an amazing holiday season so far.

Remember to take growing, learning from your mistakes, live for day and to....

Love yo’self, Respect yo’self, Treat yo’self

xxxx

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